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To clarify what this piece is—and isn’t:

It’s not just about the pay—or lack thereof. It’s also a call to examine the frequent lack of reciprocity that often surrounds it.

Most professional singers aren’t asking for Carnegie Hall rates. But we are asking why so many sacred and institutional roles still expect excellence, reliability, and emotional labor—without offering advocacy, visibility, or any other support in return. We show up prepared, polished, and professional—yet once the service ends, the vast majority don’t ask how we’re doing, and they express little interest in the human behind the harmony.

The truth is, far too many of us can no longer afford to serve the very traditions we grew up in and actually want to be part of. Not because we’ve lost our calling—but because the structures haven’t evolved.

This isn’t about ego. It’s about the quiet normalization of depletion. The moral expectation that we stay small, stay grateful, and stay silent.

And if these roles are truly as sacred as we claim, then we should be doing more—not less—to ensure the people filling them can actually survive without sacrificing their future.

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